Setting priorities when everything is urgent
Use the Eisenhower matrix and a simple weekly routine to separate urgent from important work, say no politely and protect time for what matters.
Short answer
When everything feels urgent, sort tasks on two questions: is it urgent, and is it important? Do urgent and important tasks now, schedule important but not urgent tasks, delegate urgent but less important ones, and drop the rest. Review the list each morning, protect one block of time each week for important work, and ask your manager to confirm priorities when they conflict.
Key points
- Urgent and important are different questions.
- Sort tasks into four boxes: do, schedule, delegate, drop.
- Block time every week for important work that has no deadline.
- When priorities conflict, ask your manager to decide.
- Review daily and weekly, not all day.
Why does everything feel urgent?
In NGO work, deadlines pile up. A donor asks for a report, a partner needs a decision, a field team has a problem and a meeting is called for tomorrow. When you answer each request as it arrives, the loudest one wins. The most important work, such as planning, training your team or fixing a weak process, waits.
You can change this with one simple idea: urgent and important are not the same.
What is the difference between urgent and important?
A guide from Columbia University's Office of Student Support, on the Eisenhower matrix, explains it clearly. Urgent tasks need your immediate attention and have clear consequences if you miss the time. Important tasks help you reach your long-term goals, even when they are not due right away.
The matrix is named after Dwight Eisenhower. The Columbia guide says Stephen Covey popularised it, based on a speech in which Eisenhower quoted the idea that the urgent are not important, and the important are never urgent.
How does the Eisenhower matrix work?
Put each task in one of four boxes.
| Urgent | Not urgent | |
|---|---|---|
| Important | Do now | Schedule |
| Not important | Delegate or shorten | Drop |
Airtable's guide gives short examples. Do now: a same-day deadline or a critical issue. Schedule: planning, skill building and process improvement. Delegate: routine admin work. Drop: clutter and tasks with no value. It also notes that some tasks only feel urgent because of old habits or someone else's expectations. Ask: is the deadline real?
A five-step routine for your week
- List everything. Write all tasks on one page or one spreadsheet. Your head is not a good storage place.
- Sort into the four boxes. Use two questions: what happens if this is late, and does it support a main project goal?
- Pick three for today. Choose the top three from "do now" and "schedule". Do the hardest first.
- Block time for important work. Airtable suggests even a regular 30 to 60 minute block each week makes a difference. Protect it in your calendar. Planning, learning and writing a handover note belong here.
- Review twice. Review at the start and end of the day. Do a longer review each week. Do not check the list all day.
Airtable also notes a warning sign: if your "urgent" box keeps growing, you may be saying yes too often, or you may not schedule important work early enough, so it becomes a last-minute rush.
How do you handle conflicting priorities?
Conflicts are normal when you report to several people, for example a project manager and a finance lead.
- Write your tasks with deadlines.
- Show the list to your manager.
- Ask: "If I do A first, B moves to Friday. Is that right?"
- Record the decision in a short email, so everyone sees it.
This links well with a project work plan and a project reporting rhythm, which make deadlines visible early. For field teams, see time management for busy field staff.
How do you say no, politely?
Say what you can do, not only what you cannot.
- "I cannot finish this today. I can send a draft on Thursday morning."
- "I can do this if the budget review moves to next week. Which one is first?"
- "This looks like a task for the finance team. Can I introduce you?"
Be honest. A clear no early is better than a yes you cannot keep.
What about low connectivity and constant messages?
Messaging apps create false urgency. Set times to check messages, for example three times a day. Tell your team how to reach you for real emergencies. In areas with weak internet, send short, clear messages with the action and date first, so people can respond when they connect.
What mistakes should you avoid?
- Treating every message as urgent. Pause and sort.
- Never scheduling important work. It will turn urgent later.
- Keeping a list but never reviewing it. Review it daily.
- Doing everything yourself. Delegate where possible, with clear instructions.
- Ignoring your energy. Plan hard work for your best hours. See self-care for humanitarian workers.
How EMPO can help
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Sources
- The Eisenhower Matrix — Columbia University School of Professional Studies, Office of Student Support, 2023
- Introduction to the Eisenhower Matrix — Airtable, 2025
Questions people ask
What if my manager says everything is a priority?
Show your list and ask which items should move if a new one comes in. This turns a general demand into a clear choice.
How do I say no without damaging relationships?
Say what you can do and when. For example: I cannot finish this today, but I can send it on Thursday.
Does this work in emergency response?
Yes, though more tasks are truly urgent. Sort anyway, and review more often, because the situation changes quickly.